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伯特 海寧格給父親的一封信
親愛的爸爸
很久以來,我都不知道內心深處,到底失去了什麼。很久以來,您,我最親愛的爸爸,是我內心的禁忌。很久以來,您只是某個在那裏的人,我幾乎從未留意過您。因為我的目光聚焦在別處,在某種我想像中的,更偉大的存在。
突然之間,您從很遠的地方回來,因為我的妻子索菲召喚了您。她看到了您,透過她,您與我說話。
我曾多麼經常的感到自己比您更大,曾經是多麼懼怕您,因為您經常狠狠的打我,我則拒您於我心門之外,是的,我別無選擇,因為媽媽站在了我們中間。直到如今,我才感到我變得多麼空虛和孤獨,我是多麼遠離圓滿的人生。
但是現在,您從很遠的地方回來,懷著愛,保持著並不打擾我的距離。
直到如今,我才明白,是您確保著我們日復一日的生存,我們卻沒有在內心深處意識到,有那麼多的愛,從您那裏,向我們湧來。我們可曾告訴過您,作為我們的父親,您是多麼偉大?
您籠罩在一種孤獨感裏,可是您留在了我們身邊。您一直努力而又慈愛的服務著我們的生命和未來,我們理所當然的接受, 從未感謝過對您的索求。
現在熱淚湧上我的雙眼,親愛的爸爸,我向您的偉大鞠躬,將您納入心中。很久以來,您似乎都被排除在我的心門之外,沒有了您的心,如此虛空。即使是現在,您也和我保持著友好的距離,沒有任何期待,毫不失您的偉大與尊嚴。作為我的父親,您一直是大的,作為您親愛的兒子,我接受您,以及您所給予我的一切。
親愛的爸爸 您的托尼(這是我小時候家人對我的稱呼)
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家族系統排列是生命之道的學習
系統排列並非只是用來解決眼前生活的問題,
而是要我們學習看見系統法則對生命的影響,
唯有提升自己,與道同行,
才能體悟生命的智慧!!
感謝伯特 海靈格先生
~感謝這條道路上所有付出的朋友~
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幸福不會從天而降,幸福是學習成長甜美的果實
而是要我們學習看見系統法則對生命的影響,
唯有提升自己,與道同行,
才能體悟生命的智慧!!
感謝伯特 海靈格先生
~感謝這條道路上所有付出的朋友~
幸福不會從天而降,幸福是學習成長甜美的果實